How Feng Shui Can Help You Attract a New Partner or Improve Your Relationship!
Symbology
Within minutes of entering a persons home I can usually tell, as a Feng Shui consultant, whether they are single or feeling unfulfilled in their marriage. One of the biggest giveaways is the symbology around the house; a single person will often have single objects and images through out their home.
I recently visited the home of a small family of three; mother father and daughter. There were single statues throughout the home. They were all single women who looked quite sad. It was not difficult to work out that there were problems. I dont believe in coincidence.
Our homes represent the outer reflection of our inner selves. If we wish to be one of a happy couple, its a good idea to have images of happy couples in the home. The subconscious sees only what it sees and interprets it as reality.
So we try to fool the subconscious by consciously placing loving images in our home.
What do we really want?
Sometimes we think we know what we want, when in fact, all our experiences have lead us to subconsciously want something completely different.
One single lady told me how she really wanted to find the “love of her life”. Having read some books on Feng Shui she had placed the correct type of images around her home.
For example, she had a photograph of a loving couple and a sculpture of an entwined couple.
On closer inspection, however, the photograph showed a third person in the background and the couple in the sculpture were without heads!
Not good Feng Shui!!
When I asked her to write a list of the benefits of being single against a list of the benefits of being in a couple, it became clear why she had sabotaged the Feng Shui!
It was far more comfortable for her to stay single at that moment in time.
Feng Shui Tips to Attract Love
Images
Typical Feng Shui images include those of animals who choose to spend their live together: swans or Mandarin ducks are popular examples.
Colour
The colour “red” has always been associated with love and hearts. Scattering red cushions in the bedroom or buying fresh red roses is great Feng Shui for romance.
Clearing Space.
If you are single, clearing space in your home for a new person to enter your life is a great idea! Dont worry, it doesnt mean that they actually have to move in !! If you are in a relationship already it is worth checking that you havent cluttered the “relationship area” in your home. Looking into the house from the front door, this area is normally to be found in the far right hand third of the home.
I remember one story of a lady who was always attracting “the wrong type” of man. Things changed when she removed the drinks cabinet and laundry basket from her relationship corner!
“Fire” and “Earth” energies
Relationships in Feng Shui are linked to the “earth” energy. Fire nurtures the earth and so we look to create Feng Shui cures that link to either “fire” or “earth” energy. Eg triangle shapes, candles and rising images or oblong shapes, earthen pottery and terracotta and brown colours. And finally...You can only attract in energy what you already give out in Energy
Write a list of all the qualities you wish to see in your dream partner, whether you havent yet met or whether you are already living together. Now look at the list and ask yourself how you yourself portray those exact qualities.
If you'd like someone to nurture you, how much loving attention do you actually give yourself?
If youre looking for someone who is successful, are you fulfilling your potential?
By learning to love yourself , you will attract loving attention , naturally. It is one of the basic laws of the Universe: the Law of Attraction.
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